Thursday 29 April 2010

Infedelity & cheating...a hurt and heartache causer=definately!


Okay…so people are allowed to make mistakes. If you find yourself in the situation where something’s not right in your relationship, it should end there, or work on the problems. The answer shouldn’t be going and getting into bed with someone else. It causes hurt and heartache and can affect people in such a bad way.

People can slip up, being drunk and stupid but again, isn’t that just wrong…the individual shouldn’t get so drunk in order to forget their partner. It’s so sad to think that people think it is acceptable to just cheat on their partner; it should be about love when you’re with someone, not about who else you can be with.

Again, with marriage cheating in my opinion is an extreme no…no! Marriage is about death till us part, not till things get hard, or I find someone else…you’ll do. It’s about love, commitment and sacrifice. It can tear families apart…trust me I’ve been there. It’s horrible to think that that is considered an option to get out of a relationship by some people.

The report, published by the Office for National Statistics, shows the number of divorces decreasing 5% in 2008 to 121,779, from 128,232 in 2007. (http://www.guardian.co.uk/news/datablog/2010/jan/28/divorce-rates-marriage-ons)

From research it shows that divorce rates are starting to fall…does this mean that people are getting along better? I would say that most people would agree that cheating is extremely bad behaviour…and I think that it is definitely the case. Truthfulness and honesty is definitely the best policy when it comes to cheating. If you are unhappy with a relationship don’t leave it be, either do something about it, or say something to the other person. And if you have found someone else…at least have the decency to tell the other person in the relationship before it gets to late…it may cause pain at first but it would be better in the long run.

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